One of the critical junctures of Mystery Method is realizing when you’re getting interest…and when you’re not! (So you can either do more of what’s working or change things up to get a different result!)
What is it that gives one person swagger while the another person languishes?
After all nothing is sexier than swagger.
Just like nothing is ickier and less sexy than neediness and lameness.
Mystery, aka Erik von Markovic, hopeless nerd, started out in the second and third catagories.
But he ended up squarely in the world of “swagger” like many of his students, like Neil Strauss, author of the New York times best seller “the Game.”
Here’s the rundown:
I remember talking to Neil Strauss at a little get together that Eben Pagan (Aka David DeAngelo from Double Your Dating) had a few years back in San Deigo – and I made a false presumption with Neil.
I said that he was clearly driven by XYZ (I won’t say what XYZ is at this juncture…maybe sometime later though).
The fact is I was dead wrong, and Neil told me so.
He said “I just want to get laid.”
His eyes were lighted up, but totally sincere and serious.
The plain fact is that’s what he really cares about and, as he went off with a lovely girl that he met recently online on his arm, I totally “got” what he was up to…
Now Neil most certainly has swagger.
So does Erik.
I’ll outline what’s going on with that and what it has to do with their success in field and how it is that they can help ordinary folks who are just looking to have just a tiny fraction of the success that these two pick-up artists have when it comes to attracting women in nearly any situation in my next blog post…
…But I want to give a sneak preview now because what it boils down to is being able to read the sign of the times.
I’ll leave you with this:
A cop pulls over 5 old ladies put putting down the highway at 23 miles per hour down the highway. As he swaggers up to the vehicle he can see that the four passengers are white faced with fear…
Says to the driver: “Dangerous, driving that slow.”
Driver says, politely: “Oh no dearie, I was going the EXACT speed limit…23. Just like the sign there says!”
The cop chuckles and says: “Oh no, that’s the road name. Route 23. Ok, you can go…”
But then the cop stops and says “One more thing though, your passengers, why are they all so terrified?”
The driver says “Oh it’s ok we just got off of the 119″
It’s all happening,