Hey hey, Mike Long here putting the word out on the whole PUA (Pick up Artist) situation …
Here’s the scoop:
I remember the first time I ever encountered the word PUA, and I gotta admit I had no idea what it meant. Pick up artist just wasn’t in my vocabulary. To be fair it was 2004 and very few people had heard of it…really only a small, tight knit underground secret society of Pick up artists. This was more than a year before Neil Strauss spilled the beans on everything with his book, The Game. So PUA techniques were all new to me.
That’s when I met Mystery, the guy who invented the PUA situation, the world’s top Pick up Artist.
But he has gone on the record with saying that this is his favorite opener:
So when Mystery PUA and I sat down to record this video there was a very special context in play. He and I had just been invited to a little get together at the Playboy Mansion. But Mystery was in Miami at the time, and he was jammed up with a few projects that he already had in the works, so it wasn’t sure one way or another if he’d be able to make it.
Anyways, we sat down for around 40-minutes and covered a number of topics from dating Playboy Playmates, to PUA, to his favorite opener, rumors about him, and much, much more.
Ok Mailbag time:
Mystery recorded that approach anxiety video right outside of my house in La Jolla a little while back on my Macbook pro in a moment of inspiration, and yet it’s helped countless thousands of people get over their fear of approach! Here’s the video:
Start by writing down what you REALLY want in your high value relationship. Again it doesn’t matter if you’re doing Pick up artist (PUA) techniques or not. It’s just common sense and this will start signaling to your mind that you’re looking for something more! And don’t settle!
And something that I want you to be aware of, all pretty girls are NOT high value relationship material…at least not at the moment you meet them.
Here’s another question:
As far as attraction goes, girls want what they already want. But how do they know what they already want? Well, often times they don’t!
So they use a shortcut called “pre-selection” which means that they spark much higher interest in a guy who is already attractive to girls like her.
Now this can seem like one of those catch-22 situations, where if you can’t attract one girl, then how can you attract any girl. But really it’s the opposite. It’s great news becuase you can signal pre-selection by improving yourself in ways that will make you more attractive to girls like her.
Don’t think of getting a given girl as especially important. There are plenty of fish in the sea. And you don’t have to be a PUA to feel that way.
Plus what you’re really looking to do is land a high value relationship, not just any ol’ girl. Now, that said, this girl may very well be what you’re looking for. The way to find out is to be the change you want to see, and then if she responds, then you’ve got something!
And if she doesn’t respond then the right kind of girl will!
It’s all happening,
Because your dream girl is waiting….
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